Ringing the Bell on Christmas Eve

Christmas Eve is a time to cherish your friends, family, and loved ones. Holidays are also known as the time of year where we encourage giving– not just of gifts, but of charitable donations.

Because this was my first Christmas in Nebraska (and away from my family), I wanted to do something special with my Christmas Eve that would allow me to give back to the community.

Lincoln was recently rated the fourth most giving city in a ranking done by Travelocity. The list cites Lincoln’s charitable spirit and philanthropic efforts– something I have felt and seen since I have been here. The radio station where I work, 1400 KLIN, was generous enough to complete Random Acts of Christmas throughout this month. Although I really enjoyed taking part in that, I wanted to do something more on my own.

I had talked with Major Jamie Pennington of the Salvation Army for news stories and was told by him multiple times that they were in need of bell ringers for the holiday season. I decided a great way to spend my Christmas Eve would be to ring the bell for the Salvation Army.

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Stationed in front of a grocery store in Midtown Lincoln, I rang the bell for several hours while playing some classic Christmas tunes. I was amazed by the generosity of others– of course I was expecting some change to be put in the red kettle, but people were donating 5, 10, even 20 dollar bills!

One young lady went inside and bought me a warm beverage to keep my spirits up, which was a delightful surprise. Overall, the experience was very rewarding. I hope to make ringing the bell on Christmas Eve a new tradition for years to come.

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My First Nebraska Convention

As someone who loves attending conventions and doing cosplay, it was important to me when moving that I find these types of events in Nebraska. I was fortunate enough to attend my first convention in Nebraska in November– NebrasKon.

NebrasKon focuses heavily on anime, but there were panels focused on other topics including video games, pop culture, and comic books. The community at NebrasKon seemed supportive of each other, with a large amount of attendees mingling with new people and stopping to take pictures with cosplayers who had a look they admired. According the the NebrasKon website, there were over 6 thousand people in attendance!

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The convention goes beyond just having fun and actually aims to raise money for a good cause each year. The 2016 NebrasKon, which was my first convention in Nebraska, reportedly raised  $5,777.12 from event-goers for Children and Adults with ADHD. The board will match that amount for a total donation of  $11,554.24. For the 2017 convention they have already selected their charity– Anxiety and Depression Association of America.

I love that this convention was not only a great time, but also has a mission to raise funds to help others. I think that is a huge part about what the “nerd community” should be about.

Some of the highlights of my NebrasKon experience include the cosplay competition, which had a performance by the Jing Mo Tong Athletic Association: Lion Dance Team. The team shared a Chinese cultural experience by performing with large lion-costumes that required multiple people to operate each one. The lion costumes had blinking eyes, which one of the team members would operate in between choreography. I had never seen a Lion Dance Team performance before, but I look forward to seeing them again– it was truly a joyful experience.

NebrasKon had a wide variety of things to do for people with an array of interests. From discussion panels to performances to shopping in the vendor room, I highly recommend the experience. I feel lucky that I was able to travel to the Omaha area to attend this convention and I hope to be able to go next year as well!

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Trending Topic #BreakingSmallTownNews

Regardless of whether you use Twitter avidly or you are not a fan of its 140 character limit, some of the hashtags seen on Twitter can really bring a smile to your face. The created hashtags often become trending topics, despite their lack of relevance to current headlines. Amusing trending topics in the past have included #twosentencestories, where users must craft a tale using only two sentences, and #TrumpExplainsMoviePlots, where Twitter users impersonate Presidential nominee Donald Trump summarizing the plot of a popular movie– without including the title.

Today I was interested when I saw #BreakingSmallTownNews trending on Twitter…what could this hashtag be about? It seemed awfully vague…was it possible that multiple small towns had newsworthy stories and were coincidentally using this hashtag? That was NOT the case…

#BreakingSmallTownNews is a trending topic where people make up phony news stories that they feel would only be relevant in a small town. Here are a few of my favorites…

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Whether you use it to get your news or to get your daily dose of humor, Twitter can be a fun thing to check in on during your work day. If you want to know what else I find funny, interesting, and newsworthy on Twitter, feel free to follow me @Carlimi

 

Horror Hotel Film Festival & Convention 2016

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The annual film festival and convention “Horror Hotel”, based out of Hudson, Ohio, took place again in June of 2016 and I was happy to attend as part of my co-hosting duties with Saturday Fright Theater (formerly the Phil & Erik Show). Along with Saturday Fright Theater creator Erik William, I attended the Horror Hotel weekend, where we screened films, perused merchandise, and met lots of film-makers, screenplay writers, and even an award-winning composer!

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Our first interview of the weekend was with eMpTy-Light-Pack Productions, who participated in the 48 hour project in Cleveland. Erik & I got the inside scoop on their experience with the project, and some fun stories on how their production company was formed & named.Here is Erik & I with the eMpTy-Light-Pack group:

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In addition to completing many interviews, my favorite part of the convention was wearing fun horror-themed outfits, as its not often you can get away with wearing a witch costume in June!

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I also was fortunate enough to be included in the Scream Queen competition, where each contestant was asked a series of questions before performing their best version of a horror movie star scream. While I did not win the competition, it was so much fun to participate, and I am excited to share the footage with you when it becomes available. In the meantime, here are some photos from the Scream Queen competition event:

Saturday Fright Theater will be posting interviews on their YouTube channel & incorporate them into their upcoming horror hosting episodes! If you’re on the edge of your seat, you can check out one of my favorite interviews from the Horror Hotel weekend– an interview with one of the very fun film-makers that attended the event– watch it here:

Cleveland hosts the 2016 RNC

Fifty thousand people are expected to be drawn in for the Republican National Convention this July, presenting Clevelanders with a unique opportunity to put their city on display. Local business-owners will be able to show off their products to a whole new market, including a large amount of decision-makers from national businesses. Beyond the economic impact, residents of Cleveland and its suburbs can see how their city shines to newcomers, or to those who have not considered Cleveland among the top cities since the burning Cuyahoga river days and the demise of the Rust Belt.

As one of the residents of the Cleveland area, I was excited and intrigued as to how the RNC would affect us in July. Despite my pondering, I jumped at the chance to be one of the faces that represents the area on banners that would be displayed downtown when they announced a casting call– http://www.cleveland.com/rnc-2016/index.ssf/2016/04/want_to_be_the_face_of_clevela.html

I ventured to the Global Center for Health & Innovation around 7am so I would be sure to be among the first 200 to arrive to get our photos taken for the banners. I had a great time talking to the others in line and hearing their motivation for being there. Several local television stations were present, and I was interviewed on Fox 8:

For more information about the RNC, check out this promo video: http://convention.gop/post/142466060335/it-has-been-one-of-the-most-exciting-primary

To get involved, find volunteer information here: https://www.2016cle.com/volunteer

Nerd-on-Nerd Bullying

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I understand that when you are into something that is not mainstream and it becomes mainstream it can be very annoying. I have felt that same frustration myself many times. Unfortunately, I feel the nerd community is starting to become almost volatile because of this frustration. As I have mentioned on Loserville in the past, I find it very disheartening when fans (whether it is of comic books, video games, anime, whatever) exclude other people from learning about or getting involved in the things they they like and are knowledgable about. I also know the labels “nerd” and “loser” used to be a hurtful thing and recently we have come to embrace these terms to “reclaim” them….and you know what, folks? It worked. We reclaimed the term “nerd” so hard that it is actually cool and acceptable to be a nerd now.

You’d think that all of the people who were bullied for liking video games instead of football or who got more excited for comic book Wednesday than prom would be HAPPY at this turn of events. We won! “Na na na boo boo”, right? Wrong. It is my perception that we in the nerd community have become so bitter from how we were treated that we are mad that our reclaiming of these terms worked. We are irritated that attractive girls come to comic con dressed up as Batgirl when we assume they’ve never read a comic book  We are annoyed that people who once loved football and prom now identify as “nerds” just because they went to see the Avengers movie.

Newsflash, everyone—did you ever consider that people can like football AND comic books? Did you ever, instead of lashing out at noobs, feel excited that they want to be a part of our culture and learn about the things that we made cool?! I am proud to own up the things that I enjoy, which includes comic books and cosplay and vintage video games, and I am also happy to admit to the things that I do not know. I will not feel obligated to prove my nerd knowledge to ANYONE just because they think I must just be jumping on the bandwagon based on how I look or what my other interests may be. I really feel that we should embrace this shift in the tides and show everyone just how cool, nice, and supportive our community can be.

Things are becoming SO bitter and elitist that we now hate the things we once loved. We are not excited for new comic book based movies, we just complain that they are popular now. Maybe I missed something but isn’t the point of all of this to have fun and be entertained? In the words of Ledger’s Joker, “why so serious?” Everyone is entitled to their opinions so you can hate on any movie you want, but if you hate it just because its popular or just because it has Ben Affleck in it…maybe you’re missing the point of all of this.

If you’re upset that you were once teased or bullied because of your interests, the answer is not to tease and bully others now or to hate movies that you probably would have loved if they were released 10 years ago “before it was cool”. When did nerds turn into pretentious hipsters, anyway? When a “nerd” or “loser” acts elitest, judgmental, or overly-critical towards others who show interest in nerd culture (even if they’re only interested the Avengers movie), I think it’s a real shame. From this moment forward I am campaigning against this kind of behavior, which I will heretoforth refer to as “nerd-on-nerd bullying”, regardless of what the opinions of my Loserville co-hosts may be. Those who participate in nerd-on-nerd bullying (even bullying of noob nerds or “fake geek girls”) should be sentenced to an eternity of Jar Jar Binks, The Big Bang Theory, and George Clooney as Batman– because nerd elitists hate those things– but I don’t 😉

In the words of Arnie, “everybody—chill!”. Let’s just have fun, be proud of what we are passionate about, and not be jerks to other human beings, K?

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What Veterans Day Means to Me

I don’t have any family members, to my knowledge, who have completed service in the military. Due to this, when I was growing up I feel I had a pretty big disconnect from everything related to the military. Sure, I was taught to be respectful of people in authority, people who had served, people who were older than me…but I didn’t have a strong feeling about the meaning behind things like Veterans Day and what it actually symbolizes. When 9/11 occurred, perspectives changed for a lot of us. I started to think more in-depth about what some of the older generations have been through in their lifetime (for example, my grandparents were alive for the Great Depression AND Pearl Harbor AND 9/11, etc). This thought process has continued to develop and as each year passes I become more aware of how much our veterans have sacrificed for us to have freedoms that we definitely take for granted. While this may sound cliché, its clichéd because its true.

For example, at a previous place of employment a co-worker was once talking about the strange bathrooms that she had to endure while visiting in a foreign country. She asked someone who, coincidentally, had previously served in Afghanistan, if they could imagine what she went through with this bathroom experience. This veteran was, of course, not only able to imagine what the minor inconvenience of a weird bathroom would be like, but so much more that civilians could never imagine. Her story had sounded pretty terrible until it was put into perspective by this veteran’s response. Witnessing their conversation, however trivial it may have seemed to them, has shaped the way I think and feel about military service and how much it means to me.

These experiences, conversations, & thought processes have taken me beyond just having “respect” for veterans, and have moved me to the point of feeling extremely emotional on holidays such as Veterans Day (and as my close friends can attest, I am not a highly emotional person on average days). This year I was fortunate enough to get to spend a little time with a Vietnam veteran and ask him some questions about how his service shaped his life. I have to admit I was extremely nervous to interview this veteran as I have not experienced so much of what he must have gone through. When I asked him to tell me a little bit about being a recipient of the Navy Cross for heroism his answer was something that really stuck with me due to how, despite being vague, I could still get a feel for the hardship they must have faced–

“It was a particularly bad day, bad storm, and bad things happening, and an awful lot of very courageous & brave Marines did some wonderful things and I just happened to be there.”

While a lot of us get the day off for Veterans day tomorrow (11/11/15) and will spend the day having fun or sleeping in….I hope a lot of us also take the time to think about the sacrifices that those who have completed military service have made. While you may not make it to the Veterans Day parade or ceremony downtown, I implore you to at least set aside a few minutes to consider what veterans have gone through and be appreciative.

If you’re interested, you can get information about the parade & ceremony in Downtown Cleveland while watching my interview with Vietnam veteran Anthony Paskevich:

Obligatory Thanksgiving Post

With the Turkey Day approaching at the end of this month, I feel compelled to post something, albeit cliche, about what I am grateful for this year.

If you are reading this, you are most likely already aware that in August I enrolled in the Ohio Center for Broadcasting. While there have been some frustrations in my life associated with going to school full-time while working full-time and doing an internship & extra school projects and trying to maintain some semblance of a social life….Overall this experience has really shaped me and has made me feel that I have finally found career options that fit me.

Not only am I grateful for the opportunities related to my broadcasting education, but I am also extremely excited about all of the people I have met as a result of my enrollment. From Ohio Center for Broadcasting staff, fellow students who are passionate about their futures in broadcasting, and getting to know people in the industry including my oWOW Radio contacts, I am really surprised with how supportive, helpful, and life-changing some of these relationships have become in just a few months time.

While it is great to take a moment and consider the many privileges we have in life and the many things for which we should be grateful, it is even better to embrace some of the silly little things that make daily life so fun and help us get through the many obstacles we may encounter. That being said, here are two of the things from the internet that have really no direct effect on my life, but I am super grateful for nonetheless. Drum-roll please!

1. Tom Hiddleston

Despite the fact that his scene was cut from the 2nd Avengers movie, Tom Hiddleston has really provided a lot of excitement for his fangirls. The latest movie he starred in, “Crimson Peak”, may not have been a huge box office success, but personally I felt it was extremely well-done and I highly recommend everyone see it (and not just because Tom Hiddleston looks good in it, either). With the much-anticipated movie about Hank Williams that Hiddleston is starring in, he has been a trending news story all year. My favorite Tom Hiddleston moment? Probably his charitable participation in the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge:

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2. Memes, Gifs, & Facebook Messenger “Stickers”

As the self-proclaimed “meme Queen” I am ALWAYS grateful for memes…but this year has brought some of the best that the internet has ever known. Some of my favorite memes & gifs of 2015 were the errmerrgehrd memes, Pokemon memes, and who can forget those amazing Drake “Hotline Bling” gifs. With the addition of the Giphy Keyboard to Facebook Messenger, gifs have become way more accessible and can be found for just about any mood you want to expression. Last but certainly not least, the Facebook Messenger app’s infamous “Stickers” feature. My favorite of the Stickers are Hacker Girl & Business Fish (pictured below)…but there are Stickers for just about everything you can think of, and most of them will crack you up!

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I hope you all have a great Thanksgiving and I appreciate your support!

Spock vs. Kirk: the importance of finding balance between logic & emotion

cosplayspockAs a total nerd* and a graduated English major, I often like to explore the deeper meanings behind some of the staples in geek culture. Much like analyzing a piece of classic literature, anyone can delve deeper into the themes, character development, and authorial intention (tread lightly with that one) behind movies, comic books, and television shows. As I work on my own personal growth, I frequently think back to Spock and Kirk and how their character development speaks to decision-making and communication abilities that most of us deal with on a daily basis.

*proof of nerddom, Exhibit A, my photo with William Shatner & his autograph:

carlishatnershatnerautographBefore I go off on a tangent, first I will provide a little framework for this thesis. Throughout history we have studied human nature, and throughout these studies we have paired Logic and Emotion on opposites sides much like a versus battle.

One way that these two are at odds with each other is through the “left brain” vs “right brain” science. Many of us know that our brains are often thought of in two “halves” which influence the ways in which we perceive our surroundings and make decisions based on those perceptions. Regardless of what internet quizzes may tell you, everyone uses a balance of the left and right sides. The “left brain” is considered the logic-based side whereas the “right brain” is the emotional side. The side of our brain that we use when interpreting a problem we encounter, for example, will shape how we react to said problem.

Similarly, when learning about giving speeches many will learn the methods to win over an audience or persuade an audience to see their point of view. Aristotle’s “ingredients for persuasion” also pair logic and emotion against each other as “Logos” and “Pathos”. Logos is, as the etymology suggests, a logical appeal, whereas Pathos is an appeal to an audience’s emotions. You can read specific examples on how these appeals can be used here.

According to Psychology Today, 80% of choices are drive by emotions. According to Aristotle, logic AND emotional appeals are beneficial when communicating. And according to our brains, well, logic and emotion are often battling it out to influence how we make our decisions. Mental balance, I would argue, makes you able to live life to the fullest AND communicate the most effectively. Knowing your true self helps to find this balance as it allows you to tap into which emotions align with your logic and which are fleeting or irrational.

spockandkirkNow, tying this back in to Star Trek, we can look at the characters of Spock and Kirk and their interactions with each other to better understand ourselves and the importance of finding said mental balance. Spock is from the planet Vulcan and Vulcans study to be solely creatures of logic. However,  Spock’s mother was human, allowing him to also be more aware of the emotional complexities that humans struggle with (at least, in the eyes of a Vulcan). The newer Star Trek movies do a great job of summarizing this aspect of Spock’s character—they show him studying logic as a child, they show him becoming emotionally compromised, and they show him trying to find balance between the two sides. Even Spock’s father, who is 100% Vulcan, admits that he married for love and not simply because it was a logical union. While the Vulcans spend their lives dedicated to logic and its studies, my interpretation is that they recognize some of the merits of right brain thinking.

The original Star Trek series also has a strong focus on logic vs emotions as Captain Kirk is strongly driven by his gut instincts whereas Spock values a more logic-based analytics approach to all scenarios. Through their comradery which grows throughout their journeys, they are able to find that logic and emotions are not an either/or but instead are BOTH necessary for balance and self-enlightenment.

Whether you prefer Kirk or Spock, ultimately you can look at both characters and how they develop throughout each part of the Star Trek franchise and use that information to help yourself grow and improve as a person. I don’t think there is a right or wrong answer regarding which is more valuable—logic or emotion—because I think to be a healthy human being you need to be able to use both to make decisions and to communicate with others.

Live long and prosper!!

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What Millennials can learn from Darth Vader

The next time you say “the struggle is real” over something minimal, think of Vader…he will put it in perspective for you:

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While this meme I saw today on Facebook is of course intended to be funny and is based on a fictional character, in life it’s important to always remember that someone else has it much worse than you.  Darth Vader can show Millennials to learn to overcome what is thrown at them in life by turning obstacles into opportunities.

Why do Millennials specifically have to learn this lesson? Millennials are stereotyped as being the worst generation, as we grew up in age of instant gratification and “everyone wins a trophy” youth activities. While I think some of the Millennial stereotypes can be a bit harsh, I think a lot of them are valid, especially considering the obstacles that other generations have had to overcome. To read more about Millennial stereotypes, check out this Slate article.

What our grandparents say about the tough experiences building character isn’t wrong. For those that can overcome their struggles, the struggles themselves are often what shaped the person into being a success.

While Darth Vader is part of the “dark side” and considered a villain, he has still conquered a lot. While I think it is extremely valuable to have a positive attitude in life, D.V. is still a great example of how to move forward with your goals despite having a sordid past.

In fact, I think if D.V. would have had a supportive circle of family and/or friends he could have used his extreme motivation for good instead of evil. If you look at some of the themes that are prominent in the “Star Wars” franchise, having a “band of brothers” is definitely up there—those who surround themselves with the right people choose the righteous path. I do think D.V. is a free-thinker and perhaps the way of the Jedi is a bit too mainstream for him (D.V. is the original hipster—who knew?), and given the amount of trauma he experiences he just became unable to connect with other people. Based on the injuries he has sustained and the suit he has to wear to keep himself alive he may not even feel human anymore, which would also cause a huge disconnect. I think the value of Episodes I-III (despite many fans of the franchise despising those films) is that we get to relate more to D.V. by hearing his origin story. Much like the devil in “Paradise Lost”, Darth Vader becomes a character that while we recognize as “evil”, we also feel pity for him as a sympathetic character.

Many interpret Darth A.K.A. Anakin as coming back to the the side of good when in the end he saves Luke from the Emperor and we see his spirit alongside Obi-Wan and Yoda–

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Whether you believe Darth Vader was good in the end or not, there are still lessons to be learned from him and from the Star Wars franchise as a whole. There is not much within nerd culture that does not have strong morals & themes, so why not try to analyze them to become the best “you” that you can be?